Tips for Men
the beginning of foreplay, avoid going straight to the action
spots (eg genitals). A slow build-up involving kissing,
stroking and caressing is far more effective.
men react to exclamations of pleasure from their partner
by doing whatever it is harder and faster. This is a mistake
and can break the spell. Just carry on doing more of the
Although the term foreplay suggests that sexual play (without penetration)
is only a starter, some people find genital and clitoral
kissing, touching and teasing the most satisfying parts
of sex. So if your partner is clearly enjoying things, allow
their orgasm to happen before moving on to intercourse.
a lubricant and keep it nearby. Penetration and thrusting
are very exciting, but not if they're painful. Be gentle
and don't feel you have to keep going forever if your partner
is not getting there - a woman is less likely to have an
orgasm if she feels it's compulsory.
play can mean a lot, so try not to roll over and go straight
to sleep. Your partner will feel much more special if you
stay entwined in their arms and continue to cuddle and say